85, 8pm and dinner.

Let me start off by saying this, I had no idea that geriatrics dined past 5pm. Did you?



Chris and I usually have dinner by 6pm, sometimes we wait until 7 when Emmy is in bed. But while on vacation this weekend, we (ohhh, minus Chris and Emmy...I'm on a sisters trip with my sister and friends)...OK, back to the topic at hand...dinner time. Ok, so we have been eating later in the day. Last night we had dinner at Michelle Bernsteins at the Omphoy. It was delicious, but I couldnt get over all of the gray hair at the restaurant at 9pm.



I guess south FLA is different from Tulsa in more than one way.


Here is view from our room. It has rained non stop since I arrived Thursday afternoon, the sun is supposed to be out Saturday. I have all 10 fingers crossed.

Look at these ducks at the spa, I think I need them for the pool this summer. Please note i say NEED not WANT ;)

My seester and me. I love her, she's the best big seester ever.

7 Months {emmy}

• You love reaching for faces, necklaces, your pants, toes, hair....ANYTHING really.  But your favorites include grabbing at noses and chins.
• Babbling sounds include hard consonants
• We had your church baby dedication on 2/7/09.  You had lots of family and friends come to church that day, and then over to our house to celebrate.
• You sleep 12 hours a night, from 630-630.  This is great b/c you are sleeping so much, but it has really limited what we are able to do in the evenings.
• You are getting better at holding your bottle by yourself.
• We've tried mum-mums (baby rice cakes) and you love them, we will try biter biscuits next.
• You also like to hold onto and eat graham crackers, saltines, and really anything we put in your mouth.
• Lately you have started reaching towards us to pick you up.
• We have a great supply of toys for you, but your favorite toy is your toes.

first night away

I just spent my first night away from Miss Emmy, and I....survived! I am spending 2 nights in Elk City, OK for work and Chris has baby duty. I definitely miss my family, but a little break from everyday life has been nice too (I know the mama's out there can agree).

I really havent worried about anything. #1) I try really hard not to be a worrier and #2) I know she is in good hands. If I had a husband who wasn't involved in the everyday duties of raising a child, I would probably be worried. But I have such a supportive husband who helps so much, that I know things are just fine in Tulsa without me. In fact, it sounds as though things are better. Emmy ate her dinner really well, took her whole bottles and slept all the way until 645. Sidenote: 645 used to be the normal wake up time until RSV/ear infections. Since then, she has been waking up anywhere from 545-645.

Another sidenote, there is going to be a one hour episode of "The Office" tonight. I probably won't be able to watch it tonight, but will look forward to watching it with Chris when I get home (as long as he doesnt delete it!). Can't wait!

Emmy's Six Month Pix

You can check out more pix at http://sheacaseyphotography.com/galleries/emmy

Our Story

Our story actually starts before this picture was taken, but I don't have any pictures from the awkward junior high years.

I moved to Claremore in 1994 from Indiana- our house was about 1.5 miles from Chris' house. We probably had a few junior high classes together- but didn't talk much. In high school we had a little bit more interaction with one another. Chris played football, I cheered, we were in some classes together and spent time together in student council. On one occasion, we TP'd someones house together. I won't say who- but he is in this picture.

My memories of Chris from high school are few and far between.
After high school, I went west on 412 to Oklahoma State and Chris went east on 412 to the University of Arkansas. I graduated spring 2004 and moved out to Virginia with my wonderful sister and her family. I spent one year there teaching high school math and then came back to Claremore to teach and coach cheerleading. In this time, Chris finished his bachelors degree in Civil Engineering and began his graduate work in the same discipline.

Chris would periodically come back to Claremore to watch his little brother, Greg, play football at Claremore. I saw Chris at a few football games and eventually struck up conversation with him to see how life was treating him (I had to keep 3 eyes on the cheerleaders to make sure they were doing what they were supposed to be doing- it's harder than you think). To my surprise, he was working on his masters degree and seemed to be loving it (keep in mind, this is the boy who didn't pay much attention in high school and really didn't seem to have academics as a #1...maybe #2 or 3).

Football season ended and basketball season began. I kept seeing Chris. In fact, we had an away game at Tahlequah one rainy dreary night. Chris had journeyed from Fayetteville to watch Greg (or was it to see me???) He asked for my number, in the "just friends" type of way and we talked about hanging out sometime. Completely platonic at this point, so I thought. A few weeks later, we had a game at Edison HS (In Tulsa). Chris was there watching Greg- for some reason his mom and dad weren't there. So I decided to sit by him to keep him company.

After talking for a few minutes, he asked me out on a date. I said.....YES. My mind hadn't really thought of dating him at that point, but I figured it would be fun (I had just gotten out of a 4+ year relationship a few months before this). Our first date was December 17, 2005.

The next day we went to Charlestons and I had a good time, but he didn't talk much. So our next date we went to dinner and then to a restaurant/bar afterwards to watch some college bball and have a beer. It was my master plan to make him talk more...and it worked!

It was Christmas time and I was spending it up in Kansas. On Christmas day we all said our goodbyes and I headed back home. I have never made such a fast trip from Ottawa, KS to Claremore, OK....I think I was really ready to hang out with this new man in my life.

More dates, lots of good conversations and trips to Fayetteville were bright spots in my last semester of teaching. I can't tell you at what point "i knew"...but very early on, I just "knew".

In May, Chris and I took a trip to Vegas and Reno. I really thought he was going to propose on this trip, and he didn't. I was a little disappointed.......

But not for long- because on June 8, 2006 on the Spanish Steps in Rome.....it happened.
4 months later, we were married. I was so sick of wedding thinking, planning, paying, planning.....I just wanted to be a wife to my husband.

We have had an amazing 3.5 years together. In the short time we have been married, we have experienced so much together. I can't explain the love I have for my husband and I can't find the words to tell you how supportive he is of his family.

Perhaps someday I'll reach the point of satisfaction with myself, but I am continually striving to be a better wife to my husband. I'm short tempered, easily angered, often unsympathetic, mostly cynical and can often be critical. I know I have so much to work on, and I love Chris so much b/c despite my character flaws- he loves me through it all.

We now have this little girl, Emmy, and she has added a whole new dimension to our lives. I knew that Chris was a wonderful husband- but can I just tell you how amazing he is at the role of Daddy? Seriously! Emmy is so fortunate to have such an involved, caring, interactive, loving, nurturing father. He loves his little girl, and she knows it.

We are both so lucky to have him in our lives and right now, we are both missing him badly (please hurry home from Houston....).

The path to "re"meeting Chris was a strange and twisted one, but I have no doubt that God specifically laid out that path just for us. My year of teaching and coaching was treacherous to say the least, but had I not endured- I'm not really sure how the story would have ended.

I love you, Chris.