445: leave work to get girls
505: on a good day with no dawdling
by Emmy, we are leaving their school by this time
525: arrive at home. 1 out of every
15 days Nora might fall asleep on the way home, we have a monitor base that we
keep in the car for those times.
540: dinner is served. I'm the
fastest chef this side of the Mississippi!
600: play time/ quick family walk/
clean up kitchen
615: bath time for both girls
635: Nora and I head to her room to
rock/nurse while Emmy watches "Elf on the Shelf"
700: Nora asleep
715: Emmy goes potty and brushes
teeth. This is followed by us reading a book to her, singing a song and saying
prayers.
730: leave Emmy's room so she can
have 5 minutes of "reading" books to herself.
735-740: lights out for Emmy
740-830: listen to Emmy
thrash/cry/do yoga in bed/remake her bed/ rearrange pillows/sing/make demands
and cough. This usually requires a few trips into her room, threats if the
spanking spoon and removal of privileges.
900: I shower
930: pump, wash parts and all other
baby things from the day, pack Nora's bottles for the next day. Then we feed
the dogs.
1000: to bed
(The next few items happened last
week, and although the time of the events usually vary- the events themselves
almost always happen)
1130: Nora wakes up and is wide
eyed. I pull her into bed with me on the daybed in her room.
1245: she's still awake and becoming
very agitated.
100-115: I give in and feed her and
she falls asleep
116: I go into our bedroom, pound on
bed to wake the hubby and proclaim "we have GOT to fix Nora's sleep".
Side note: we never had to "train" Emmy to sleep. She just did it on
her own. Nora is giving us a run for our money.
215: Nora wakes up crying. A few
pats on he back and paci reinsertion later and she's asleep
400: coughing attack that wakes her,
she needs help getting back to sleep.
445: another coughing attack that
wakes her and me, she needs help getting back to sleep.
610: Emmy wakes. Goes peepee and
then back to bed, where she stays until her clock turns green at 640.
We get ready for work, do our
morning stuff and sometime around 8am I settle in at my desk to, ya know, enjoy
ALL that kid free time I get as a working outside the home mom. Because, as everyone knows, when I'm at the office I can just shut my door and not answer to anyone. I have no one that needs me here and I can just rest ;)
Not going to lie...this post gives me a little bit of "holy crap, can we really do this??"
ReplyDeleteSara...you've got this! I hope someday we look back at our lives and think, "man, that was easy when we just had 2 kids".
DeleteWhen we had Emmy I truly felt like life wasn't too difficult, and I didn't feel like the adjustment was THAT bad. Nora is just a needier baby. She's 11 months old and doesn't crawl, so if you leave a room and she is sad that you go- at this point in time you have to pick her up and lug her around with you.
For us, the adjustment from 1 to 2 has been much harder than from 0 to 1...someday, I'll report to you how the adjustment is from 2 to 3.